I don’t know, maybe some girls might think of that as a compliment but personally, I would have preferred a simple message like, “Hey, would you like to talk?I saw that some of your interests were the same as mine,” or something along those lines.And you need to keep in mind that not all women are the same when it comes to what they enjoy sexually.Just because your "signature move" got the last girl crazy, doesn't mean that it will even faze this girl.Stay away from bland and generic compliments like "you look nice" or "you look fine." And one compliment that most women really don't like is "you look cute"; she is , she is a woman. Everyone knows that it's much easier for a man to be pleasured than a woman, however sex is better if both people enjoy themselves.Even if you had a long day, it's still important that you reciprocate in the bedroom.Even if you are dating a truly beautiful woman, a woman who gets hit on by men all the time or even a model, she still needs and wants to be complimented. This means that you need to remember to notice little things that she does- if she goes to the store and tries to buy you your favorite coffee or if she hauls a 6 pack of beer home for you in the rain.
The problem with online dating is that you can’t see the person’s face when they’re telling you about themselves. I think it’s hard for guys to comprehend the world of online dating from a woman’s perspective. They then flippantly toss out all of those well thought out, carefully crafted messages from most of those poor schmucks, and then they log onto their Facebook accounts to complain to their girlfriends that there are no “good men” left in the world.If you are interested in a woman, you need to see her woman not just any woman. A woman wants you to understand her stuff -- her insecurities and her childhood issues and work hard to make her feel safe and good in those areas.A surefire way to make a relationship crash and burn is to exploit her weaknesses and use insecurities about which she confided in you against her. This means that even if you are dating a powerhouse woman -- a CEO of a company, a notable woman or just a woman with a big and bossy personality -- she still wants to feel like the woman in the relationship with you being the man. A woman wants a man to notice when she spent the time to look pretty.
A lot of men think women pay attention to fashion, buy expensive shoes and spend time getting ready so that other women will notice.
You can’t watch as they smile, and that smile spreads up into their eyes and transforms their face into one of the most beautiful things you’ve ever seen – a thing that warms your heart and makes you realize you want to spend more time with the person. Unfortunately, the reality is nowhere near that fantasy.