This community is dedicated to those who have lost a husband, wife, or partner.Anything is open for discussion here, with the hope that we can focus on grief, bereavement, life after loss, and continuing on after a great loss.I find it boring and disrespectful to both sex's some people are ok with it,, I for one am not. There are still a lot of people who are either from a generation where uncommitted sex is just plain wrong, or else they have enough self-respect to avoid the no-strings attached sex deal.I don't judge those who do do get me wrong or get your panties in a bunch if you miss read this. I'm not calling anyone nasty names, but, what works for some will never work for everyone, it's a matter of what's right for the individuals involved.So to all the coffee go'ers - you know where I was going to go with that.On to my two cents worth, for me there is no such thing as no strings attached. I mean sex I can do for myself, so why bother if there aren't any strings... Although I am hoping to find a serious, loving relationship one day, soon... It isn't on my list of priorities, and not something I seek out. All in all, I guess I don't look down upon it, or look down on people who do it. But I also hope that all who are seeking something more, find it. Find out who is single near you and start dating locally! Me and view a list of singles who live near you and are looking to date. Sign-up today for free and search your local area for great singles.
As has been stated by others, it isn't always cut and dried.
I am not going to wake up in the morning feeling like I may have put my d! Yes I know wear protection I would if it came to that.
But I am not one to jump around or even have one partner for that matter strickley for sex.
Just another version of an answer to this great ... I have been known to participate in the No-strings sex.... Norma I don't even know where people get off on no strings attached sex.
For me I have to be in a relationship or know that it is going somewhere before getting into something. Hmmm....you're opening a can of worms here nb native and I LOVE it. I want more..strings attached sex means no emotional/spiritual committment, no security, no love..it's a lot like having a great meal without the dessert. Well said, UG; I don't know if it's possible to express it any better than that. Aside from saying "I agree," there isn't really much I could add. It's a great topic, though, and thanks to nb native for starting it.