However, starting a relationship with a lie—now matter how “harmless” it may seem to him—takes away from the woman’s ability to use her own discretion and decision-making power and therefore erodes trust.When she inevitably finds out, she typically finds the age difference and the lie far more jarring than he had anticipated.Regardless, this is not a category of men that can offer another woman a serious, consistent relationship.Internet dating is an outlet for him and he is not planning to leave his partner anytime soon, if ever. Lost in Fantasy How many profiles do you see that list things like as relationship must-haves?Rather, he moves from one online-created connection to the next, or back and forth between many, and barely if ever have to leave the house.
He may be very well meaning, and may truly believe that once he meets these young women they will be so drawn to him that the deception won’t matter, and the age difference will be rendered irrelevant.
When he needs connection or the fantasy of a relationship, he can effectively “order out” for a date.
By avoiding actual human contact he isn’t forced to push his boundaries or risk challenging the perfection of his fantasy women with the experience of a real life woman.
Here is the collected consensus of 11 categories of men you might encounter when dating online: 1.
Just Looking He fantasizes about a beautiful love life or sex life but has too much anxiety to actually let any potential connection leave his protective computer screen.
Nonetheless, if you’re looking for a fun couple of months, look no further. He realizes that the easiest way to access older women is online.