She has the financial ability, motivation, and time to eat healthy and exercise.If a man is in a relationship with an older woman, he's usually there because of her personality just as much as her looks.7.A cougar exudes self-confidence, which makes her a highly desirable conquest to a younger man.Often it's the younger man who approaches the older woman in hopes of a purely sexual, no-strings-attached relationship.Demi Moore may have set the stage for the "Cougar Era", but her self-esteem issues were not consistent with those of the typical cougar.Ashton was unfaithful because he's a cheater, fair and square.

Being a cougar isn't for the faint of heart ... For nearly five years, I've been dating a man 15 years my junior.

Giphy When I first started dating my boyfriend, I hated his taste in music. And he's developed a taste for fine wine, since it's one of my passions.